What's New With…Me: My Christmas Note to You!

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One of the last pictures of our holiday session – after many “one heel” spins. :)

Early yesterday evening, I asked my son what he wanted most for Christmas.  Fishing, of course, to be sure I had bought what he wanted.  Somewhat to my surprise, he said, “Nothing.”  ”All I want is a ton of snow, so I can go sledding with Daddy, Molly & M.”    I was a bit taken aback, yet not.   And all of a sudden, a haphazard mix of emotions effortlessly roiled to the surface.  Part of me was sickened that I would ask such a ridiculous question.   Part of me was proud that my son’s family means more to him than material things.  Part of me was so very grateful to God that he’s developing the character I hope and pray continues.   And many more feelings I struggle to pin down correctly.

And in his response, I felt my internal compass return.  After many long days and nights working here, I needed that.  It has been a very busy couple of months for all of us.  And it also let me know that it is time for me to take a  much needed break until the new year.

For the next few days, I’ll be putting together cookie trays for our Christmas Eve family party and preparing to decorate gingerbread houses before bed on Christmas Eve.  In between all of this, kisses will drop like rain on tiny blonde heads.  Any activity will be interrupted to sing along to “The Grinch Song” and “Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer.”  Oh, and we’re not allowed to speak when “Carol of the Bells” is on, my son’s favorite.   We’ll pen thank you notes to Santa.  Carrots will be carefully chosen for the reindeer.

And for you, my friends, my hope is that you will enjoy this time as much as I do.  That your days ahead are filled with blessings.  That you find happiness in the things that cost nothing.  That you find great joy in living.

Last, but certainly not least, I’d like to say that that I’m so grateful for you – for your prayers, inspiration, encouragement, and participation.  Truly.  From the bottom of my heart, I thank you.  What I do here is nothing without YOU.  Thank you for being a part of this journey with me.

Many blessings,
Melissa

Note: Store match-ups will continue to be posted during the break, as will all routine posts (restaurant, etc.) 

DoNuts News: How to See Time Sensitive Posts (Updated)

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I know.  It’s still a problem.  Problem or not, I’m not going anywhere. ;)  I am, however, going to help you find me.

From the main page of the blog, you can follow me in a variety of places.  You can subscribe to emails, via a reader, Twitter, and of course, Facebook.  Since the bulk of you are Facebook users, there is another way you can be sure to see any updates I post.  I don’t post a LOT.  After all, it’s just me.  You can expect to see around 10 notifications a day.  In the next month or two, you’ll see around 20 (at most) for the entire day.  That’s because there will be Black Friday and Cyber Monday deals I’ll be posting.

To help ensure that you won’t miss a beat, head over to the Don’t Make Me Nuts page on Facebook.  Look for the *Liked* button under the corner of the Facebook cover area that says “Welcome to Our Community!”  Hover over the *Liked* button and a dropdown menu will appear.  Check “Get Notifications” and “Show in News Feed.”  If you have one, you can add us to your Interest List as well.

 


Checking “Get Notifications” will put all of our post notifications in your little globe at the top of the page.  That way, you won’t miss any breaking deals or freebies.

If you have an unlimited texting plan, you may want to sign up for mobile alerts.  Simply text “follow DontMakeMeNuts” to 40404 and you’ll receive text alerts for every deal posted.

What’s New With…Me!: I’m Going Home…Sort Of!

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If you’re new around here, you may not recall any previous posts like this.  I don’t do them often.  But since my health ordeal last year, I do get questions about how I’m feeling.  Well, I’ll get you up to speed on that before I tell you anything else.

I’m smack in the middle of a three month Prilosec trial after loads of tests that showed nothing.  At the end of the trial, I’ll be weaned off to see if I have further problems.  Given the way I feel today underneath that purple blanket, I’ll be put back on it or an alternating regimen of Prilosec and Zantac.  But for now, I can eat again.  I’m not afraid to exercise for fear that I’ll go through another starvation period and lose too much weight.   Life is starting to look consistently normal.  I’m grateful for any victory, and this is a big one, but I’ll continue to pray for healing.

Now, I’ve got some even better news!
Last week, I decided to go Groupon hunting for you.   That’s nothing new.  But when I did, I saw something extraordinary…well, to me anyway.  I happened across a Groupon for the Historic Hale Springs Inn in Rogersville, Tennessee.   I was frozen.   The only thing this side of  my immediate family that can tear me away from working on great deals is my family history.

I looked at the little snippet of a map embedded in that page and immediately noted that the Register of Deeds was within walking distance of the Inn.   I didn’t just want to see this place.  I needed to see this place.  I’ve always wanted to be in this place.  For just one moment.  For the last 15 years.

“15 years?”, you ask,  ”That’s not very long.”  No, it sure isn’t, but we didn’t even know my Mitchell’s were here until 15 years ago.  I found them.  My mother had been searching long before I was born.  When I was a very young girl,  I have many memories of  her hauling me to libraries to do research.  She never stopped, but did slow down as the years rolled by.  Back in those days, I never paid much attention to what she was doing.  Then all of a sudden, shortly after my father passed away, I realized I knew so little about him.    Perhaps more sadly, in the last 20 years since his passing, I recall even less.  Nevertheless,  his passing started me on a journey to learn about my family that will last the rest of my life, and that journey is a gift.  Believe me.  It has touched and changed me in ways nothing else has, can or ever will.  And part of that journey involves Hawkins and Greene Counties in Tennessee, where my Mitchell’s, Pickering’s, Malone’s, Carter’s, and others lived for nearly 100 years after the Revolutionary War.

I’ve been to East Cape Girardeau, Cairo, Anna, and Thebes in Illinois looking for them.  I’ve been to Cape Girardeau, Burfordville, Lutesville, Marble Hill, Malden, and Senath in Missouri looking for them.  I’ve also been to  St. Francis, Piggott and Rector in Arkansas…what else?  Looking for them.

With all of this swirling around in my head, I sat and stared at the picture of that Inn, shaking my head at the name.  Hale.  Mary Ann Hale Gray Johnson Pickering Mitchell is my third great grandmother.

There were three days left to purchase, so I decided to leave that window open (in more ways than one) and move on to something else.  After all, I’m not sitting on a gold mine for such a trip.  I’m not even sitting on a penny for this trip.  Haha…

Well, I looked at it again the following day.  And again the following day.  Then because I couldn’t let it go, I decided to tell the Facebook group that I started a few years ago –  East Tennessee Genealogy, of course.  ;)

And on the last day, with just a few hours remaining, I bought two nights.   I’ve yet to come up with a third night since I’m holding out for The General Morgan Inn in Greene County, and it’s fully booked.    Even without the third night (which I’ll find somewhere), I will be in Hawkins County with my family for my birthday.  Most importantly, I’ll be with my mother (God willing), who turns 80 this year.

You already know how I feel about my mother.   I can hardly wait to take a picture of her by the Nolichucky River.  Or somewhat near it if it’s scary.  Haha…I’ll caption that picture this way, “You see that hill?  Yep, just over that hill and that other hill about, oh say,  2 miles off is the ROARING Nolichucky River.”

Below is a biographical snippet about my great grandfather, Enos Mitchell.  It was featured in the Premium Messenger Album, an (I believe) annual publication about current ministers of the day.  My son’s middle name is Mitchell specifically to honor this man.

 

I haven’t figured out what to do with the site while I’m gone, but I’m sure I’ll come up with something.  Even if I don’t, I know you’ll all be here waiting to hear all about my trip.  I can hardly wait for October.

We’re Experiencing Technical Difficulties

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I just want to let you know that I’m aware of the technical difficulties you’re experiencing.  We’ve been receiving a steady increase in traffic in anticipation of the match-ups on Friday & Saturday for the last several weeks.  This week, it is overwhelming our capacity to handle it, which is both good and bad.  The remaining match-ups for Rite Aid and Walgreens will be available today – somewhere, somehow.  I will keep you posted.

Thank you for your patience.

DoNuts on Facebook: How to See Time Sensitive Posts!

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Facebook is making some changes I need to address.  Generally, I keep quiet.  After all, you know how and where to find me,  and you have continued to do so despite the changes.

Now, it seems that’s getting more difficult for you to do and they’re not making it any easier for me either.  Facebook is charging business and fan pages for their messages.  Basically, if I want all of my Facebook subscribers to see the deals I post, I have to pay for it.  Ummmm, is there a coupon for that?  Har…har…. ;)

Here are a few ways around this mess until the investors arch their backs in protest of this nasty new design: Make a list!

Wait!  I will show you how!

First, login to your Facebook and head over to my fabulous page.  You’ll see something like this:


You can see that I’ve clicked the dropdown menu button next to the message area above the welcome.  From there, click *Add to Interest Lists*, then *New List*.  From this point, you can select all of the pages you’d like to include in your list.


After you’ve added all pages to your list, you’ll see them to the right of your list name.  From here, you can choose whether or not you want your friends, the public or only you to see your list.  When you’ve selected your privacy option, click done.

When you return to your Facebook newsfeed page (Home), you’ll see the Favorite List you’ve created on your left sidebar.

At this point, Facebook will select our page to show in your news feed.  So every time I post something, you’ll see it.  That way, you won’t miss any breaking deals this summer and beyond.  To make sure it’s there, go back to the DoNuts page and hover over the  *Liked* button.  A dropdown menu will appear and you should see that *Show in News Feed* is checked.  If it isn’t, check it and our posts will appear.

Finally, be sure and like any post you see.  It will help Facebook decide what/who you like and what should appear in your newsfeed.  This is VERY important.

Remember, you can always follow me via Twitter, Reader or visit my Facebook page or blog regularly to see the latest updates.  Yes, things will slow down for the summer, but pick back up in the fall and winter.  Let’s try and get all the kinks worked out before that happens.

Site Update: Going Down Again

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I just wanted to let you know that we’ll be going down again – maybe today, maybe tomorrow.  We’ll be down anywhere between 24-72 hours.  I’m hoping it’s more like 24.  If you’d like to keep up on all the latest developments, please be sure to *like* the Facebook page.

For those of you wondering what’s going on –  This move will end any further outages, streamline our posting ability, and enable us to handle spikes in traffic, as well as the growth of our community.

Thanks for your understanding, patience, and for being a part of this fabulous community.

Melissa
Nutty Girl-in-Chief

Taking Your Pulse: What Are You Buying?

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Since the holidays have passed, I’ve been posting good deals on grocery items at Amazon, Groupons…well, you know.

What I REALLY want to know is: What are you looking for now that the holidays are all done?  I’ll start.

Nothing special.  I know…I know…I want good grocery deals – items under $1 in store, good deals at Amazon and clearance finds everywhere else.  Yep, that’s about it.  Now it’s your turn?  What are you buying or looking for?  You can comment on this post, discuss it in our community or send me a message .  Any other suggestions you have are always welcome, too!

Thanks,
Melissa

What’s New With…The Website! YouTube & Our Own Community!

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Things are really starting to get exciting around here.  There are a couple of new additions that I’ve been working on for a few days that I really want to tell you about.  As I mentioned some time ago, I am going to be expanding our whole *operation* here to make it more instructional AND user friendly this year.  To that end, I’ve got this little nifty addition to our sidebar.

Nah, there’s nothing going on HERE yet, but there will be.  I’ve got a new 12 month series that I’ll be starting in the next week or so…a ‘Rubber Meets The Road’  type series about saving money where it’s tough to do so.  I won’t give away more than that, but you’ll want to check it out.  There will be associated YouTube outlines and tutorials.  I’ll break that all down for you when it matters…and when I have it all pulled together.  :)

Next, as many of you know, I’m the Forum Leader for the Walgreens, Rite Aid, Family Dollar General/Tree at AFC (A Full Cup).   Because I want to interact with you as much as I do them…well, more actually –  I’ve created our own forum!

This Community is right here on the website and gives you the opportunity to interact with our fabulous DoNuts readers and ME!  Have a coupon question?  ASK!   Want to know who has the cheapest diapers this week?  ASK!   Want to compile a stock up price list?  Do it!  I answer questions all day long at AFC, and participate in a wide variety of discussions about various topics regarding the drugstores, grocery, and so much more.  Not only that, here on the website, we’ve got a fabulous group of really informed readers who know the answers to these questions, too.   It’s easy to join.  Just click on the “Join This Community” button and register with BlogFrog.  And yes, it’s totally free.

Once you’ve done that, you can click on the forum button (1) and then *+New Discussion*(2) to post your first topic!

As a Forum Leader, I encourage lots and lots of dialogue, but always in a respectful manner.  If the same question is asked repeatedly/new couponer question, etc., show kindness and patience with the asker.  By the way, I want you to feel free to vent here as well, but use your own judgement.  I don’t think I need to say that disparaging remarks and posts will be deleted.

In addition, when I post the F&C each week for the drugstores, and whatever other stores I’m working on, I’ll include a link to the Community discussion for that particular store or weeks deals if you think that’s something you’d be interested in.  That way, you can all talk strategy, scenarios, couponing basics, swapping, and more.   Of course, if there is something you’d like to discuss privately, you can always contact me.

Alrighty, friends, that’s what I’ve got going on right now.  I’ll keep you updated as things unfold.  Next up will be the 101 pages for the drugstores and the addition of some grocery deals.  If you have a particular grocery store you’d like covered, let me know!   Have a video topic suggestion?  Hmmm, I think I’ll pose these question in the Community! ;)

What’s New With The Blog? Matchups Button!

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You know I don’t like a lot of non-useful busy-busy ads and things on the site.  I did want an easy way for you to get straight to the match-ups without using the dropdown menu. Now, all you have to do is click the button on the main page of the site (under the coupon database button) that looks just like the one above and you’ll be taken to all the latest match-ups for each store.  I’m thinking it may be better if that took you to a SHORT store menu and you could choose each store from there.  Yes/No?  Lemme know!  Either way, it’s just another way I’m determined to make YOUR site a bit more user friendly.

Next up?  YouTube…

Perfectionistically yours,
Melissa
DoNuts Owner and Nutty Girl-in-Chief :)

It’s That Time Of Year Again…

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And that means I’ll be taking a break to spend some quality time with my family.  For the rest of the day, I’ll be putting the finishing touches on my cookie trays for our Christmas Eve family party and preparing to decorate gingerbread houses before bed tonight.  In between, kisses will drop like rain on tiny blonde heads.  Any activity will be interrupted to dance to Jingle Bell Rock.    Notes for Santa will be penned.  Carrots will be carefully chosen for the reindeer.  Oh, and Santa has requested a hamburger.  ~Darn that phone call from Santa mistake!

I love Christmas more than you can imagine and surprisingly more with each passing year.  And as is typical for me, it is early in the morning and I’m already tearing up thinking about my son.  A couple of days ago, he was thoroughly convinced he’d gotten some kind of magic dust in his eye from our elf.  Innocence.  It breaks me every time.  Well, that and the way my daughter says ‘tow-man’ for ‘snowman’.  Everything that begins with an ‘s’  is a ‘t’.  Snail=tail.  Snack=tack.   My sweet babies.

And for you, my friends, my hope is that you will enjoy this time as much as I do.  That your days ahead are filled with blessings.  That you find happiness in the things that cost nothing.  That you find great joy in living.

And because I try not to bury you with this all the time, I can finally say (again) that I’m so grateful for each and every one of you – for your prayers, inspiration, encouragement and participation.  Truly.  From the bottom of my heart, thank you.  What I do here is nothing without YOU.  Thank you for being a part of this journey with me.

Wishing all the best to you and yours,
Melissa

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